Friday, December 28, 2012

How much does a baby initially cost?

Q. Like, to start off buying all the supplies...crib, changing table, dresser, diapers, clothes, bath stuff, first aid, maternity clothes, decorate the babies room..etc.

we dont need insurance money..my husband is military.
im thinking around 4,000? the bedroom set i found was 1200...
Yeah, I like Walmart ones too. I also want one of the changing tables that have the bookshelf thing..they look like a china cabinet sort of thing? Do you know what Im talking about?

A. Around $1500-and I have nice stuff. A bedroom set for 1200? The crib I have is from Walmart and was $150 and is really nice. Its all on what you really want I guess. A lot of things aren't necessary.


EDIT:

I just wanted to add a few things:
My little girl doesn't have a dresser as she has a closet in her bedroom for storage and to hang up clothes.
The only furniture we have is a Crib, as a bassinet and changing table also were unnecessary.
We don't have a monitor, as I won't ever be far away from my daughter.
Diaper pails are a total waste of money-do diapers really need their own garbage? No.
We don't have a swing or a bouncer-cute, but not necessary. We do have a high chair that was $90 from Target that was a gift that she can sit in if she needs to.
The travel system I bought was from babiesrus.com and it was $200 and VERY good quality.
The only crib bedding we have is a waterproof mattress pad and a couple sheets, as they don't suggest anything in the crib anymore due to SIDS risk, so that is a big money saver.

Also-Thrift stores/consignment shops are nice for clothing, but don't buy used furniture or anything else there unless you absolutely know its safe.

We received a playpen as a gift and they are nice to have-the one I received was about $70.

I also signed up for coupons at baby product websites-they really help.


Can you think of anything I will need to add to my Baby Registry?
Q. I'm doing it at both Babies "R" Us and Target. I've added most of the basics, i.e. crib, stroller & car seat, high chair, changing table for room, dresser for room, etc. What else can you think of, as far as the smaller things go, that I should add to the registries?

A. A lot of great tips so far.

The rule of thumb is 4 items on your registry for each shower guest. Sounds like a lot, but when you start adding in the smaller/lower cost items it adds up quick. Another tip is to register for what you want, not what you would buy yourself. For example, you really want the $200 video monitor but it is out of your price range. Put it on your registry, if you get it great, if not, then buy the one you can afford.

Stores want you to register, so take advantage of the benefits they offer. I'm most familiar with BabiesRus, so I'll use them for an example. Anything on your registry is a "no hassle" return, so even if you've registered for something at Target, also add it to your registry at BabiesRus. This way if you need to return something, and don't have a gift reciept, it's no problem. Babies also has a registry completion coupon. This gives you 10% off anything left on your registry when your due date is near. If there is something you need to buy, go online and add it to your registry, then save 10% when you buy it.

Coupons are another great way to save. I know BabiesRus always give away 20% off coupons to get customers to come back. If you ask they will give you a bunch which you can give to your friends to save them money.

Some overlooked items:

Mittens, they come out with fingernails and always seem scratch themselves whenever you want to take a picture.

Sassy diaper sack dispenser and refills.

Diapers. If you are using disposable diapers expect to spend $1600 - $2000 before potty training.

Chicco caddy clip on high chair. Great for use in restaurants and friends homes.

Tiny Diner Mat. A suction cup mat for the table, great for restaurants.

Bath tub. The First Year's sure comfort tub is an great choice. it fits in a kitchen sink or tub, comes with a sling for newborns, a temperature sensitive drain, and has 2 seating positions for 6 months +. It's also only $20.

Boudreaux's Butt Paste. Funny name, but it's the best for diaper rash.

Thermometer. Your pediatrician is going to want rectal, so go with one like Safety 1st Hospital's Choice Exchangeable Tip 3-in-1 Therm Set($20). It has interchangable tips, and reads in only five seconds.

A play mat for tummy time. Evenflo ExerSaucer Triple Fun Jungle has a mat for tummy time, then you use it as an exersaucer, and when the child stand, it turns into a s-shaped activity table. It retails for $120.

Again, don't forget to put the small items on your registry; bottles and all the nipples (3month, 6 month...), pacifiers in the different sizes, wipes teethers and the like.

Hope this helps,

Alan


Where can I find the ULTIMATE packing list for Disney?
Q. I am going to disney world for senior trip from march 17th through march 21st. What is the best packing list for disney online.

A. There is an amazing list online. Im going to disney in two weeks and this is the list i am using to pack... but here it is
Disney World Vacation Ultimate Packing List

Clothing & Accessories

��Shirts
��Shorts/capris
��Pants
��Suit/evening outfits
��Underwear
��Bras
��Pajamas
��Belts
��Socks
��Panty Hose
��Comfortable walking shoes (2 pair)
��Sandals
��Dress shoes
��Pool shoes
��Flip flops
��Hair bands/clips
��Hats/visors
��Sweatband/bandanna
��Jewelry/Scarves
��Watches
��Sunglasses w/strap
��Swimsuits
��_________________
��_________________

Travel with Babies, Toddlers & Kids

��Bottles
��Baby food
��Sippy cups
��Plastic pool cups w/top & straw
��Portable high chair
��Bibs
��Diapers
��Swim diapers
��Baby wipes
��Diaper bag
��Portable crib
��Stroller
��Car safety seat
��Room intercom/baby monitor
���Special� blanket/toy
��Board games
��Handheld games ��Car window shades
��Kids ID tags
��_________________
��_________________
Toiletries

��Toothbrush
��Toothpaste
��Soap/bath gel
��Shampoo
��Hair conditioner
��Deodorant
��Contacts/glasses
��Contact lens solution
��Sunscreen
��Lip balm w/sunscreen
��Face wash
��Face lotion
��Body lotion
��Q-Tips
��Makeup
��Make-up remover
��Nail polish
��Tampons/pads
��Foot spray
��Foot powder
��Cornstarch or talcum powder
��Razors
��Shaving cream
��Tweezers
��Nail clippers
��Nail file
��Hair brush/comb
��Hair gel/mousse
��Hair spray
��Blow dryer
��Perfume
��Kleenex
��Kids shampoo
��Kids toothbrushes
��Kids soap/ bath gel
��Kids hairbrush/comb
��_________________
��_________________


Other Items

��Batteries
��Cameras
��Camera batteries, charger, data cable
��Film
��Camera bag
��Disposable cameras for kids
��Camcorder w/charger
��Camcorder batteries & tapes
��Cell phone w/charger
��Cell car charger
��Palm/PDA & charger
��Music/CDs
��iPod &wall charger & headphones
��Laptop computer, charger, carrying case
��Walkie talkies
��Umbrella
��Waist bag/day pack
��Neck lanyard for room key/tickets
��Beach bag
��Collapsible cooler
��Large zip top bags
��Sewing kit
��First Aid kit
��Safety pins
��Earplugs
��Insect repellent
��Antibacterial hand gel
��Wet wipes
��Stain wipes/stick
��Pillows
��Workout stuff
��Water sports bottle
��Waterproof case
��Night light
��Pen flash lights
��Pennies for pressing
��Pins for trading
��Books/magazines
��Playing cards
��Games
��Frisbees
��_________________
��_________________


Travel Paperwork

��Plane tickets (make copies)
��Hotel confirmation
��Rental car confirmation
��Cash/credit cards
��Dollar bills for tips & tolls
��Checkbook
��Travelers checks (make copies)
��Passports/birth certificates (for cruise)
��Drivers license/IDs
��Health insurance card
��Guidebooks
��Maps/directions
��Discount coupons
��Membership cards (such as AAA, DVC)
��Theme park tickets (make copies)
��Address book
��Address labels
��Stationery/notepad
��Pens
��Stamps
��Envelopes for maid tips
��_________________
��_________________

First Aid

��Prescription medications
��Moleskin
��Band-Aids
��Antibiotic ointment
��Anti-itch gel/spray
��Aloe vera gel
��Antacids/stomach remedies
��Pain medicine
��Kids pain medicine
��Motion sickness remedies
��Midol
��Sinus/allergy medicine
��Eyedrops
��Vitamins
��Cough drops
��_________________
��_________________
Car Trip Stuff

��Maps/directions
��Proof of auto insurance
��Guidebooks
��Coupons for road meals & hotels
��Flashlight
��Paper towels
��Wet wipes
��Cooler
��Bags for trash
��Umbrella
��Snacks
��Drinks
��Pillows
��Blankets
��Portable VCR/DVD player
��Movies
��Drawing boards
��Travel games
��New small toys
��_________________
��_________________

Laundry Items

��Laundry soap
��Dryer sheets
��Stain remover
��Laundry bags
��_________________
��_________________

Kitchen Items

��Bottled water
��Coffee
��Tea bags
��Sugar/sweetener
��Nondairy creamer
��Instant soup mix
��Cocoa packets
��Juice boxes ��Powdered drink mix
��Microwave popcorn
��Granola bars
��Chips/pretzels
��Crackers
��Fruit snacks
��Small cereal boxes
��Pop Tarts
��Peanut butter
��Tuna pouches/kits
��Pre-measured seasonings
��Travel salt & pepper
��Dish soap
��Dish scrubber/sponge
��Dish towel
��Paper plates
��Plastic utensils
��Disposable cups
��Zip top bags
��Trash bags
��Paper Towels
�� Water filtering pitcher
��Straws
��Coffee maker
��Coffee filters
��Corkscrew
��Wine stopper
��Electric skillet
��Toaster
��Non-stick fry pan
��Citronella candles
��_________________
��_________________


Day Bag for Theme Parks

��Theme park tickets (make copies)
��Drivers license/ID for each adult
��Cash/credit card
��Membership cards (such as AAA, DVC)
��Meal confirmation #s
��Guidebooks
��Park maps
��Camera, film & batteries
��Camcorder, tapes & extra battery
��Disposable camera for kids
��Cell phones
��Walkie talkies
��Neck lanyard for room key/tickets
��Sunglasses w/straps
��Water bottle w/strap
��Collapsible cooler
��Snacks
��Autograph book
��Fat pen for character autographs
��Rain poncho or umbrella
��Mister fan & extra batteries
��Moleskin
��Pain medicine
��Sunscreen
��Lip balm w/sunscreen
��Insect repellant
��Kleenex
��Antibacterial hand gel
��Wet wipes
��Hats/visors/sweatbands/bandannas
��Plastic trash bags or rain ponchos for wet rides
��Large zip-top bags for wet clothes
��Dry change of clothes for kids
��Glow sticks & necklaces
��Pennies for pressing
��Pins for trading
��Playing cards or handheld games to keep kids occupied in line
��Kids ID tags
��_________________
��_________________

Day Bag for Water Parks

��Water park tickets
��Drivers license/ID for each adult
��Cash/credit card
��Waterproof camera
��Cell phones
��Walkie talkies
��Neck lanyard for room key/tickets
��Sunglasses w/straps
��Water bottle w/strap
��Collapsible cooler
��Snacks
��Bathing suits
��Beach towels
��Earplugs
��Goggles
��Plastic pool cups w/top & straw
��Beach bag
��Floatation toys
��Water toys
��Books/magazines
��Mister fan & extra batteries
��Pain medicine
��Sunscreen
��Lip balm w/sunscreen
��Insect repellant
��Kleenex
��Antibacterial hand gel
��Wet wipes
��Hats/visors/sweatbands/bandannas
��Swim diapers
��Waterproof watch
��Waterproof case
��Water shoes/flip flops
��Large zip-top bags for wet clothes
��Dry change of clothes for kids
��Kids ID tags
��_________________
��______________


what to expect in your first visit to doctor?
Q. I am 5wks preg.and I found it out by doing HPT. I have my first appointment with gynac on Monday. What type of tests they do?
Any internal/physical test other than urine test?

A. Well!
The doctor will take urine and blood. He will most likely do a pelvic exam an take some samples to make sure you don't have any kind of infections. He may try to find the baby's heartbeat with this little monitor. He will ask how you are and answer you questions, and send you home with a big bag of mommy goodies (magazines and coupons and stuff) Then he will have you set up a 4 week follow up appointment and most likely give you a scrip for prenatal vitamins.

Congratulations mommy!





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What concerns should I have if any about high blood pressure and pregnancy?

Q. My blood pressure is slightly elevated. I'm concerned that if I got pregnant that it would affect the baby negatively. If there are any health professionals out there who can give me sound advice on this please respond to how high blood pressure would affect a pregnancy and should I be concerned and what are the problems that could/would occur. I hav no knowledge so any information would be helpful Thanks.

A. That all really depends on exactly how high sightly elevated blood pressure you are talking about. Is this a diagnosis you got from the doctor, or just something you believe is a problem? The first thing you need to do, regardless of your pregnancy plans, is to get the blood pressure taken care of. Your doctor is the best one to advise you on that, but for starters, they usually begin with recommending a low salt diet, getting your weight to a normal level, and exercises. If those don't lower it, then you are talking medication, usually starting with a diuretic type medication. And if that still won't lower it enough, you look at stuff like beta blockers. As far as the effect on a pregnancy, that all depends again on how high you are talking, and what is controlling it. If you are controlled with diet and exercise, it should still maintain the control during pregnancy. They don't particularly like to have expectant ladies on medications, but with monitoring it can still be done safely for you and the baby. The first place to start is with your doctor though, for a full workup to determine if you actually have a problem. High blood pressure during pregancy does pose a few risks, yes. For you, the high blood pressure puts you at risk for pre-eclampsia, kidney failure, and gestational diabetes. It raises your later risk for kidney disease, diabetes and heart disease. High blood pressure puts stress on the placenta, and therefore the baby, because not enough oxygen and nutrients can be delivered. That may result in a low birth weight, premature delivery, and developmental problems. The high blood pressure also puts you at risk for a condition called placental abruption, where the placenta is separated from the uterine wall before delivery can occur. That condition causes you and the baby to bleed, sometimes it can be fatal for both of you. You are further at risk during delivery, when blood pressure naturally rises, for a stroke. Immediately following delivery, your chances for bleeding are increased as well. Although you can and would be monitored closely during the entire pregnancy, and likely would be delivered via c-section, it's worth your time to do what you can to lower your blood pressure before you actually get pregnant. Then of course, you would still want to advise your OB about your past history of hypertension, as you would still be considered higher risk because of it. How likely the complications would be is really dependant on how bad your hypertension is, and how well controlled it is, and how it is controlled. If it is only borderline, then it should be easy enough to control with diet and exercise- not actually a bad idea for anyone really- pregnant, hypertensive or not. And the diet would be good for pregnancy as well. So start with visiting your doctor for the workup, and then go from there once you have advice tailored to your particular situation and needs. Don't get scared by all the stuff I wrote, as I gave you the fullest picture and worst case scenarios. It doesn't mean it will happen to you, but you asked for the truth and I felt you deserved the fullest picture I could give you. Don't let it scare you out of motherhood, let it motivate you to get into control and be a healthy mother. Good luck, and may you be a healthy mom to one cute and healthy baby.


What's the average timeframe that a stillborn can stay in the womb before she naturally goes into labor?
Q. I'm trying to write a report but I'm having a tough time finding some of the information I need. Such as when a baby is stillborn, how long can it stay in the mother before her body naturally goes into labor? and when she does go into labor, without being induced, does the labor happen normally as if the baby were alive? I need answers that don't involve modern medicines and practices.

A. When a baby dies in utero and is considered stillborn, it is often "missed" meaning a woman doesn't bleed, feel pain, or cramping. The only outward sign might be that she doesn't feel her baby move one day and wonders if something is wrong. It is almost always confirmed by a doctor with a fetal heart rate monitor or an ultrasound showing lack of a heartbeat. In early pregnancy, the body begins the motions of expelling a deceased fetus between 2days and 2 weeks, but as pregnancy continues, the woman's body is much less likely to go into labor once a baby has passed away. Between 10 and 15 or so weeks, the body might go into labor on it's own after a week or two, but often it does not. And after 16 or 17 weeks, the body often doesn't go into labor on it's own. A woman must be induced. History shows that before modern medicine, many babies that died late in utero stayed in their mother's bodies for months, years, and often indefinitely.


what is the percentage of deaths caused by vonwillebrands desease?
Q. what are the %'s and risks during labor and delivery caused by vonwillebrands desease? is there a percent amount of like 1 out of 10 women with vonwillebrands will die during delivery and stuff. is the risk higher if her family has a history of hemoriaging?

A. Hi,
I am a doctor..

von Willebrand Disease (vWD) is an inherited disorder(not infectious, as you have classified!) of a clotting factor that affects platelets; it interferes with the blood's ability to clot. About one percent of Americans have vWD. There are several subtypes of this disorder that have somewhat different risks and require different treatment in pregnancy.

vWD is divided into 3 major categories: (1) partial quantitative deficiency (type I), (2) qualitative deficiency (type II), and (3) total deficiency (type III). Qualitative vWD type II is further divided into 4 variants, ie, IIA, IIB, IIN, and IIM, based on the characteristics of the dysfunctional vWF. These categories correspond to distinct molecular mechanisms, with corresponding clinical features and therapeutic requirements

Most women with vWD experience some improvement in their condition during gestation, since the hormones of pregnancy increase many clotting factors. As for childbirth, the bleeding that occurs after the placenta is expelled is normally controlled by uterine contractions, which squeeze the blood vessels and stop the blood from flowing out of the uterus. This mechanism is fully functional in women with clotting disorders. There are times though that vWD does lead to hemorrhaging at childbirth, either immediately while in the delivery room, or at a later time within the next few weeks. Since there are different types of vWD, which respond to different treatments, your hematologist should advise your obstetrician about what to do if you have excess bleeding at birth. Sometimes in severe vWD, medications are given preventatively during labor. Since vWD is hereditary, it also is important to make sure your pediatrician knows about your condition and assesses your baby after delivery.

During pregnancy, the vWF level increases in most patients with non�type III disease. Thus, in patients with functionally normal vWF, labor and delivery usually proceed normally. However, patients with type II disease may experience hemorrhagic problems. In particular, patients with type IIB may experience thrombocytopenia due to the increased plasma levels associated with abnormal vWF. All patients should be monitored for excessive bleeding, particularly during the first week postpartum.

While you need to be aware of potential complications, it's generally considered safe to get pregnant with von Willebrand Disease, and most women do quite well through pregnancy and childbirth. Again, I think you should talk to your OB and your hematologist about your own particular situation.

If you want more info, feel free to write to me or visit
www.medicguide.org
This is a free site done by me and other doctors to answer health querries for free.


What are the hospital procedures for a pregnant woman from the time she enters to when she leaves the hospital
Q. I need to do a school project on pregnancy and babies. And part of it is to research exactly what has to happen for a woman to properly have her baby and leave the hospital. So anyone know the procedures and paperwork? I don't even have the slightest clue. Thanks

A. Hmm, it's been a while but here goes...
I had a planned c-section and here's what I remember...
*Register- fill out a general form about insurance, emeregency contacts, etc, give copy of insurance card and driver license (many hospitals allow you to preregister weeks before so you don't have to mess with all that while you are in labor)
*Fill out medical forms (allergies, medical history, etc) and consent forms for the surgery, anesthesia and other stuff
*Get prepped (monitors hooked up to monitor my vitals and the baby and contractions, get IV put in, get shaved at incision site, do an ultrasound to check baby's position)
*Sit and wait til surgeon is ready
*Go to OR
*Get prepped further (get epidural or spinal block, get urinary catheter inserted, lie down and wait to go numb)
*Drape is put up,Doc checks for numbness, and hubby is brought in
*Belly is cleaned/sterilized and surgery begins (they talk you through it, telling you what they are doing and what to expect to feel/experience....yes you do feel stuff)
*pull out baby and hand off to nurse, who rubs clean and puts on security device and bracelet
*pull uterus out to finish it up/sew it up, put it back in, and sew you up
*Let you see baby, let daddy hold him/her
*send baby off to get cleaned, pricked, diapered, etc
(I don't remember the next 30-45 minutes because I was in such pain I asked them to put me under)
*you get taken on your bed to your room (you are still paralyzed... IV and catheter get removed the next day)
*baby is brought in
*the usual hospital stay stuff... docs checking on you, checking on baby goes on for next few days
*someone comes to talk to you to fill out legal paperwork about birth certificate
*you (or hubby) will need to meet with hospital financial person to arrange payment/payment plan
*sign release papers
*put baby in car seat, get pushed out of hospital in wheelchair to go home





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